Betrayal to Breakthrough

Betrayal affects millions , but you’re not alone , and you’re not crazy!

Hey, I’m Coke Elms, a certified life coach with a background in Post Betrayal Transformation. Betrayal shakes the foundation of who you are. While there are many forms, betrayal a specific type of trauma which needs to be addressed differently than other types of trauma. Unfortunately, many practitioners are not familiar with the 5 stages someone experiencing betrayal goes through, and that lack of understanding leaves a lot of people suffering. Good news! Through my own research and experience, and thanks to the wonderful contributions of the PBT Institute, I discovered there’s a predictable, proven, process to guide you from betrayal to breakthrough. My mission is to guide you through it so you don’t have to suffer as long as I did. Allow me to be your partner in progression. The New You starts here.

Meet your Guide

A Kind Heart for your Hardest Days

A Safe Harbor for Your Story

We provide a judgment-free space where your pain is validated, not rushed. Healing begins the moment you feel truly heard and understood by someone who genuinely cares.

From Surviving to Thriving

Recovery isn't just about "getting over it"—it's about transformation. We are here to help you move past the daily grind of survival and into a life where you feel empowered, grounded, and fulfilled.

The Return of Your Joy

Your peace of mind is our greatest success metric. We focus on gentle, proven methods that help dissolve the weight of your trauma and restore genuine joy and purpose in your life.

The Emotional Impact

What Betrayal can Feel Like

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Revisiting Betrayal / Racing Thoughts

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Hypervigilance
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Feeling of
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Loss of Personal
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Fatigue

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Feeling of
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Revisiting Betrayal / Racing Thoughts

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Inability to
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Intense
Fear

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Hypervigilance
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Feeling of
Helplessness

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Loss of Personal
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Extreme
Fatigue

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Unable to
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Feeling of
Helplessness

Have a Heart to Heart

Offering Unfiltered

One-on-One Partnership

You aren’t just a name on a calendar. Every session is a dedicated 1:1 sanctuary where the entire focus is you and your goals.

Finely Curated Journey

Tailored Roadmaps and not just Generic Checklists

We don’t use cookie-cutter coaching plans. Because your trauma is unique, your path to creating the life you wish to lead must be too. Together, we will create a personalized roadmap that integrates your specific goals, your pace of healing, and your personality.

Your Progress Portal

Healing with a Personalized Healing Dashboard

Replacing the “guesswork” of healing with a Personalized Healing Dashboard. This private, secure space allows you to track your milestones, revisit session notes, and visually see your progress over time.

Paths to Peace

Support for Every Stage of Recovery

The Discovery Phase

Initial conversation to reflect on where you are now, and where you want to go.  

$175

The New You

Betrayal flips your world. This phase is about finding your footing.

$180

Surviving to Thriving

This is the beautiful journey. We move from “okay” to a life of lightness, trusting yourself.

$595

Real Stories of Hope

Insights & Encouragement

Gentle Reminders for the Road Ahead

Why it’s absolutely okay to laugh while you’re still healing, even during tough times

It’s perfectly fine to find moments of laughter even as you navigate through your healing journey, especially during challenging times.

Why it’s absolutely okay to laugh while you’re still healing, even during tough times

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Simple Relaxation Techniques to Improve Sleep Quality

That said, with the right fit, therapy can be a big step toward a more empowered and authentic version of ourselves.

Breaking the Stigma: Why Mental Health Conversations Matter

That said, with the right fit, therapy can be a big step toward a more empowered and authentic version of ourselves.